Libra rising insights

This posts targets libras but is honestly good for anybody.

It was so funny I was taking an uber on the way to see my boyfriend. I was talking to the driver, and you know when someone strikes you with how calm they are. I was just saying random shit and he wasn’t judging and just listening completely. even though I didn’t know him! some people are just pure wow. Purtiy is something im working on. So we kept talking and he mentioned that its okay, I don’t have to like you and you don’t have to like me and nobody has to make each other like them. he was talking about other people, and I was just like wow he totally just assessed that about me and he was spot on. Because the thing is, I try hard to be agreeable, to get along, and generally to get people to like me. Even im sure I do it without knowing. But hold on – making people like me was so lodged in my subconscious, that I was inclined to disagree completely with him. But actually, he’s the one who is right. no matter how nice you are, how down to earth you try to be, how much you try to relate to someone, some people just aren’t going to like you. and there’s nothing you can do about it. and the sooner you accept it the better. you just need to get on with you life and stop thinking about these meaningless things! you can still be in the same room, still doing your thing, and both of you be at peace whilst knowing you are not their cup of tea.

So I guess what I learned from that is that its completely okay and normal that people don’t like you. it more than likely is triggering something within themselves, just like how we ourselves get triggered by others. we don’t have to force being nice to everyone. sometimes we just aren’t meant to mesh with someone. I think the sooner we stop caring and focus on our own beautiful selves and family and friends, the better. actually, lately since i had this realization, I had a further wonderful thought that if someone doesn’t like me, its a good thing because it means I’m unique. idk why or if you agree. anyway I have to go! Love you guys